Who did you tell first?
I have not told anyone at work about our fertility concerns. I am thinking about telling one person, but I do not know how to choose or how much to share. What helped you decide wh
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Trying to take some pressure off intimacy
My partner mentioned occasional erectile difficulty and now worries it's linked. How did you talk about this together without it becoming a performance pressure thing?
Tracking has become too much
I tracked everything for 10 months and I'm burned out. BBT, OPKs, apps. I want to track less but still have something useful for my appointment. What did you stop tracking and what
I congratulated my friend, then muted the chat
The message arrived between two work emails. There was a photograph, a row of hearts, and then the group chat started moving faster than I could read. My friend was pregnant. I wan
I could use some support with how this feels
The longer the uncertainty goes on, the more it affects how I feel. I would like support, but I am not sure how to begin asking for it. What helped you describe what you needed to
What should I ask about the costs?
Biggest question for us right now: what does insurance actually cover for evaluation? I'm in UK so it's different but cost is still a worry. What financial questions did you add to
The note I carried into my first GP appointment
The night before my GP appointment, my phone note had become longer than the appointment itself. We had been trying for 14 months, and I had kept adding dates, questions, history a