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We keep saying next year

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My partner and I have been together 5 years. We live in two cities for work right now - I’m in Berlin Mon-Thu, he’s in Leipzig. We talk about trying “when things are more settled” but settled never arrives.

I’m not looking for someone to tell me the right time. I’m trying to figure out how to have the conversation without it turning into a logistics meeting. Work travel, apartment, money - it all comes up.

How did you talk about timing when life wasn’t perfectly lined up? I’d love some language that isn’t just a pros and cons list.

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